I think you are looking at my post too generally when it is something pertaining to a specific situation I am currently in. I agree with that. However, I feel as though who ever you decide to have a long-term relationship with should at least share similar morals and an outlook on life with you. And that’s what I’m getting at. I’m not going to actively pursue someone If we can’t build together on the same foundation and I would prefer a man look deeper than my outward appearance to decide if we would be an ideal match. Biologically, men are driven more by the physical so they can unintentionally turn a blind eye to some of the things woman might be a little quicker to see as a deal breaker.